Open Question: Would you consider this a form of cheating?
 

Your spouse/partner engaging in fetish play (but not actually having sex) with someone other than you. For example your wife?s fat lesbian boss likes to have your wife come over to her house eat large portions of food and then encourages your wife to pass gas in front of her getting turned on/aroused by this but not pursing anything further. Or your neighbor likes to play with your wife?s feet but this will never lead to anything beyond that.

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