Open Question: Can you have fetishes but not be over-the-top?
 

I heard a fetish is sexual obsession and strong sexual arousal with a strange object, scenario, or human body part. I hear stories of people with finger and foot fetishes saying stuff like "her finger/toenails were painted pretty pink and her feet/fingers were so sexy and she let me suck them and..." and that they are "obsessed" with these body parts and always looking at them. No more details. I have a finger and foot fetish, but I am not like this. Yes, fingers and feet look fairly nice, but I would never suck on fingers or toes or anything. Also, while I do sometimes watch someone do something that involves fingers or feet, I'm not obsessed or anything. I just think they are nice looking body parts and sometimes the things they do look nice. Not obsessed or anything. Do I still technically have a finger fetish and a foot fetish?

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