My boyfriend has a foot fetish which I'm okay with. But something he loves to do with my feet, is to whip them with a stick, and that's called falaka he says. I typically really like the other things he does with my feet but whipping them really hurts and is just a total turn off for me. I was thinking that maybe we could only do falaka on certain occasions, but it really does just make me want to stop what we're doing. what should I do, because he really enjoys it and I don't want to be closed minded and take it away from him.
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