I'm not sure what the rules are about bumping threads are on this forum, but when I read this article I just had to post a response!
I have two arguments for this scenario. The woman who posted this article sounds incredibly sexually repressed. There is nothing at all perverted or depraved about somebody who compliments a woman on her feet, be he a foot lover or not. To the foot lover, the shape of the toes and the instep etc are the first thing he notices - it's obvious, otherwise he wouldn't be a foot lover! A foot lover is turned on my feet in exactly the same way that other men are turned on by women's arses or boobs, but people don't refer to arse-men or tit-men as perverts do they? Granted, footsex and the like isn't every woman's cup of tea, but to ask him politely to drop the subject, indicating that she isn't into that kind of thing would be much more appropriate than slating him on the internet and calling him a perverted weirdo.
However, in the same breath, there is no way that I would ever tell a girl on the first date that her feet turned me on. Absolutely no chance in hell! Heck, if I like her and I think it might go somewhere then the last thing I want to do is to say something which may make her think I'm a pervert. This guy would have done better to say 'You look fantastic tonight, those shoes really finish you off' and just leave it there. That would have got a much better reaction than 'Do you want me to suck your toes?'. Just like an arse-man would compliment a woman on her 'lovely dress' instead of her 'gorgeous arse' or a tit-man would say 'You look great in that blouse' as opposed to 'Great rack!'.
There are plenty of women who don't like the sex acts that people deem 'normal', like blowjobs (I've dated most of them!), so if that's the case it's obvious that not all women will like footsex. I once dated a girl who gave the most tremendous footjobs I have ever had - but flat out refused to suck me off. My next girlfriend gave the best head in the world, but would slap me if I went anywhere below her knees. Would you call these women weird if you weren't foot lovers yourselves? A combination of these girls would make the best girlfriend ever - but that's another story...
Sometimes showing an interest in a girls feet early on pays dividends, yet men like us have to be able to read the signs exceptionally well. We just have to remember that, whether we are 3xtreme fetishists who go in for trampling and ball busting, or just men who like to incorporate foot massaging and the occasional footjob into regular sex, there is NOTHING WRONG with a man who likes feet.
Don't let this article discourage you from introducing your partner to the world of footsex, but you have to pick your moment carefully. The first date is, for me, definately NOT it!
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