If it was somebody you knew well who would not become a deranged stalker would you use him to massage your feet after work, shopping, exercise, knowing it was going to arouse him a great deal, even if you had no sexual interest in him.edit: actually, your anecdote about the talk show doesn't "answer" any question. It just shows what a miserable prude this one poor bastard on a talk show was married to.
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