OMG this is actually a turn on to read about man, cuz I love it when a woman catches a man looking.
so since that has  happened there is already a little bit of a non-verbal ice breaker that has already taken place at least.
just a matter of figuring out the next steps.  I  don't know what they are or what they should be exactly but I feel you are  close and  I  want to hear about your successes if someone can think of a good technique 
