The "physical" stuff still takes place, but there is no "explosion" emotionally... See, as an experiment - I decided to see if I could find a high heel arousing, just a normal, black high heel - no foot in it or anything - nothing remotely sexy about it. ( and before anyone says it, yes, I did also try it with a high heel known to be appealing to men with a foot/boot/shoe fetish) I went through the physical aspects, to the conclusion...but I felt no charge, no arousal, and no orgasm...it was just like going to the toilet... Psychologically, why is this? It felt "wrong" on some level, a deep level - but then why didn't this stop the various muscles working in a sexual manner?... To Tony B: No, I'm always professional with questions like this.

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