I have a thing for womens legs and feet, especially when they wear hosiery. It isn't something that I have to have, but it does arrouse me highly. Unfortunately my wife is rarely interested in indulging me with this. I don't demand it, in fact I almost never ask her to wear them. Rather than have the unfulfilled urge and have my wife think I am a pervert, I am asking if there is a way to rid myself of this desire. I don't understand where it comes from, but I do know it causes me grief and i wish to be rid of it. What in the world does my choice of hair length have to do with anything? I was honest from the very start of my wife and my relationship about my desire. She was into it before, but is no longer interested now. I am seeking a way to not want it knowing she doesn't want to fulfill the desire anymore. She claims it doesn't bother her, but she isn't willing to even occassionally indulge me. I am tired of causing us problems.

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